What Does a Clitoral Orgasm Feel Like?
What does a clitoral orgasm feel like? Unfortunately, this is a question posed by a significant majority of women as well as men seeking to sate their curiosity. Women’s pleasure is still given short shrift far too often. It’s not unheard-of for women well past their 20s to be unsure what a clitoral orgasm feels like.
It’s important to bear in mind that women don’t become fully aroused nearly as quickly as men do. The elapsed time from arousal by clit stimulators or manually to orgasm can be extremely brief for men, whereas a woman needs to be aroused emotionally as well as physically to experience a clitoral orgasm. It takes time for her to become ready to surrender to the rush of a clitoral orgasm.
The sensations, like any other physical feeling, are difficult to describe, but there are some common elements women who have regular clitoral orgasms touch upon. There’s a feeling of all-consuming warmth that permeates her body. She’ll be flooded with sensation, feelings so intense that “pleasure” seems like an inadequate word to describe them. These rushes of pleasure can wash over her like waves—the clitoris is the center of these feelings, which can run down the legs to the toes and back up to provide a rush of raw sensation to her head. She can feel so blissed out that all conscious thought dissipates while she’s overloaded with pure orgasmic pleasure.
You’ll know when she’s in the throes of a clitoral orgasm from the spasming and contractions along her body, as well as the engorgement of her labia and clit. The rush of blood to her pelvis accounts for some of the warmth that women consistently describe as part of the clitoral orgasm.
Be sure to do your part to open her door to these feelings. Pay particular attention to her clit. Give it the direct sensations that she finds most enjoyable. Above all, be sure to demonstrate the depths of your affection—that’s the most important key to great sex and orgasms for both of you.
